Day 43: Quiet Day

 

The three little hooligans are all off to school today, so I have the day off. I have some washing that needs to be done, but that will only take me a couple of hours. So I think today I might take some time out for me time. Give myself a little break. I still have my headache so I'm not going to be doing anything that needs a lot of concentration, because today, I don't think I have the ability to focus.

Going to see if my daughter is going to set the kids pool up again. They'll get no use out of it is it's pack away and sitting on the shelf. Maybe next week after we have mum's BBQ lunch.

It has been bloody hot here lately... I'm counting down the days for winter to get here. I hate the heat, freaking plays havoc on my head, and all my arthritic joints. You think it would be worse in winter... but for me summer is a killer.

Until tomorrow, remember: I may be wrong ~ but it's highly unlikely.

Day 46: Another Week Done

 

I kind of feel like this rabbit today. I feel like I have been through the wars and survived. I'm proud of the fact that I have made this far through the year and not killed anyone (in my stories that is ~ you have to remember I'm still an author at heart). 

Today, I'm also doing some washing, mainly bedding as it's starting to look weird. and I know it's just from the cats and kids napping on them. I like to wash them at least once a week.

The kids are driving me batty today. not because they're being naughty, but because they haven't stopped eating. anyone on the outside looking in would think we starve them at any other time, because no sooner have they finished one thing and then about fifteen minutes later they are all starving again. It didn't help that we also had a family BBQ for mum's birthday so there was 1 ADHD kid and one on the autistic spectrum, who clash whenever they are together.

I'm just going to send them down to mum every time they come and ask me for something.

Until tomorrow, remember: I licked it ~ so it's mine

Day 33: Happy Birthday To Me

 

Today is my birthday... I'm 57 at least I think I am) I was born in 1969, so you go and figure it out. I also did my weigh in today and I was 105.8 which is confusing as I gained .7 of a kg, but I actually lost cm all over. I'm not fazed by it though as I know it will all work out again in the end and I will start losing again.

The weather has been freaking hot here at the minute. You can't do anything without wanting to change your clothes at least three times a day because you've sweated through them. 

I'm not doing anything too crazy for my birthday. I might de-cobweb the interior of the house and spray the exterior for wasps. though it looks like we might be in for some rain today; so, I might hold off on the spraying until that passes us by. The wind has just started to pick up outside.

Hurricane and Monsoon are loving being back at school; Graceful not so much, but at least she has dance and jiu jitsu to look forward to. I'm loving the peace and quiet.

Until tomorrow, remember: Be like a crow> collect shiny things; hop down the road for no apparent reason & scream loudly whenever you see your friends.

Day 30: Just For Something Different

 

Today after I did all my daily chores; I've decided to spend some much-needed time re reading my stories and making notes. Also sorting through what notes that I have for next books in the line of each series. I'm hoping just taking some me time will reenergise me enough to finish all the mundane things I don't want to tackle in life.

I've been so focused on everything else, that I feel like I've lost a part of myself along the way. I promised myself I wasn't going to do that this year. I'm hate it when my shit has to always be pushed to the back burner. From today on I will carve out time each week just for me. Probably on the days all three girls are at school. Too hard to do anything when they are home.

Today I'm working one sorting through the Mountain Made series. Sadly, I don't even remember what some of the stories are about... how bad is that? I'll get it all sorted just like I have with everything else.

Until tomorrow, remember: Results happen over time; not overnight.

Day 28: So much Still To Do.

Today I'm just pottering around the house. every time I mark one job off the list three more seem to get added. Like I've said before, it's mainly just wiping over walls, cabinetry, sweeping, and mopping. I'll get more done tomorrow when Monsoon is otherwise occupied.

That's when I'll tackle shampooing the carpets and mats. Too hard when I have a little helper who is more of a hindrance than a help. I just have to remember that tomorrow will be much better.

My back and legs are still hurting from where I fell off the ledge while whipper snipping, but at least I didn't break anything (except my glasses). But it's good to look out and see that I've got about 2/3 of the whole yards/paddocks done. Only the big paddock to go now. I'm not as stressed no I've decided to just take my time in doing everything.

Today I have been looking up ways to fix the hinges on the doors under the kitchen sink. Every time the maintenance guys try and fix it, they seem to make it worse, so I'll figure it out on my own. I saw these metal things on Facebook, but I'm sure I can figure out something similar. and way cheaper.

Until tomorrow, remember: Do something today that your future self will thank you for.

Day 26: Happy Australia Day

I'll start off by wishing everyone a very happy Australia Day, I'm proud to be an Aussie. I don't get tangled up in all this segregated bullshit that seems to pop up every time this date rolls around. I can't be held accountable for something that happened hundreds of years before I was born. I'm not telling people to get over it, because everyone has the right to their own opinions. I just think we should celebrate life and not dwell on the past. Just so you're not wondering... I'm not a racist person. I don't care what nationality you are, or what religion you follow (unless it's some crazy-assed cult, because let's face it they usually always end in disaster). I'm a big believer in to each their own. You don't try and convert me, and I won't try and convert you. So, in saying that... once again, HAPPY AUSTRALIA DAY.

In other news I weighed, and I've put on weight this week 105.1kg all my measurements are basically the same. It could also be from the amount of fluids I drank yesterday.  I spent the day doing yard work in 37degree heat, but at least I got done what I needed to; then not soon after it pissed down rain. So, I was happy to get as much done as I did. Though, it could also be because I have a fucked thyroid and that is always a stumbling block in the weight department

We lost power last night at 9:33pm and got it back at 1:05am... the kicker is my ex-son-in-law came around about 20 minutes before and borrowed our generator... they have power lines down around their house. The good thing is we didn't have to go into any fridges and freezers during the outage.

Today, I'm going to give the yard work a break, while the grass dries out, and pick one of the interior rooms to deep clean... 12 days until our house inspection... most of the cleaning is just wiping marks off the walls.

Until tomorrow, remember: A yawn is just a silent scream for coffee

Day 25: Another Week> Conquered

 

I've had to battle changes of weather, kids well and truly ready to go back to school, and I'm still standing. I even had heat stroke a couple of times. you spend over twenty minutes in the sun, and it plays havoc with my health. They say sweating is good for you... all I know is it makes me smelly as hell, but at least I know I've done something.

The yard is coming along. I still have a ways to go, but now, I'm not trying to kill myself anymore to get it done. I can't wait until the ride on mower is fixed. Sadly, that is still a couple of months away. For now, it's just whipper snipper, brush cutter, and battery-operated mowers. I suppose at least with all the battery-operated stuff I have a time limit of 20 minutes each session.

I'm yet to find the 2nd dog run that is supposed to be piled up at the base of one of the trees. I'll find it eventually. I'm rolling them up and putting them aside for my daughter's ex-husband (seeing as the wire cable is still good) It's also his birthday today.

The frangipani tree has started to flower. It's pretty. they are a nice pinky colour. I'm going to dread it when the wattle trees start to flower because it will have me sneezing until the cows come home.

I need to get myself some safety glasses, as my real glasses just aren't good enough to stop the debris while I'm working in the yard

Until tomorrow, remember: We can all do our own stunts; intentional or not.

Day 23: Getting There

 

Slowly making my way through the house my two little blond helpers, are more a hinderance that anything else. they make every job five times as hard, but they think they are doing a wonderful job. they just drain my energy (4 days until school starts). They get so excited to help. Especially Hurricane who like to come and remind me at least 20 to 30 times a day that she is my helper. Sadly, I can't tell them no when they want to help.

My head is pounding today, and my back is tweaking just a fraction. I just have to take out a bit of time for me. Not that I'll get much rest, because the three girls will come in and talk to me all day long.

Today we are cleaning the back patio and yard so that I can finally get in and mow. The wind over the last couple of days has blown in rubbish from other yards, this is a regular occurrence. I can't even pinpoint which neighbour, because if you look into their yards, they always look neat and tidy.

until tomorrow, remember: Life is a onetime offer... use it well.

Day 18: Made It Through Another Week

 

It might not have been the smoothest running week, but I made it all the way to the end and I'm still breathing and getting shit done... I've knocked a few things off of my to do list for the year. So, I'm happy about that

JOBS DONE:

1) Loo deep cleaned> from scrubbing the loo to washing the walls, windows, and floors.

2) Built the 3 shelves for the plate pantry so it's now not looking so cluttered and there isn't all the wasted space at the bottom.

3) Changed out the wheels on the BBQ (only some touch up painting and swapping out the switches to go... my niece did the wheels and is doing some research on the switches).

4) Got the new beds, mattress and chair. 

5) Hemmed the curtains in the lounge room and dining room (Mum did it).

6) Gotten over half of the yard (paddocks 1.48 acres) done. Slow going, but I'm making progress in that area. Best part is... as yet I haven't seen a snake.

7) Inventoried the freezers so that I know what food we have. Just so we don't have end up buying multiples of the same stuff over and over. this year is going to be different. I wish I had somewhere else to keep the linen that way I could have two pantries as isn't quite big enough. right now, I'm just going to have to make do with what we have because we really don't have any spare space.

8) Reorganised the kitchen, trying to make it more efficient for my use. It's all part of my deep cleaning process. I'm not rushing it but getting it done slowly but surely.

9) Made some new charts up to add to my folders. Some for cleaning, and some for my weight and health.

10) Got rid of the last dump-run stuff (thanks to the girl's grandad who did the runs for me).

Until tomorrow, remember: Don't be afraid to start over; you may like your new story better.

Day 16: Why Is It?

 

Why is it when you've hurt yourself; you keep bumping said sore spot over and over.

1) I don't keep bumping my back, but I do keep moving in a way that really twinges it and has a shooting pain run through it.

2) My fingernail on my right pinky tore off right down to the quick; so of course this is the one I keep bumping.

3) I bit the inside of my cheek (left side), You guessed it, I keep biting the damn thing. so damn sore.

4) I think my ear infection is back in my right ear; it feels weird. Feels more swollen than actually sore.

5) and at the moment I am suffering a case of the travelling sciatica. it keeps swapping between my leg and my back. Just when I think it's gone the bitch comes back and yells surprise. 

Until tomorrow, remember: Somedays I'm not sure if I'm just in a bad mood or if everyone else around me are idiots.

Day 15: Fixing Day

Today the guys are coming out to see what has to be done about the ceiling in the girl's room. It's going to look so much better than what's there now. I might even ask for suggestions on how to get the paint stain off the garage floor. I'm hoping it's as simple as paint stripper. I could even ask about the one on the exterior brick wall. They are the next big jobs on my list of shit to get done. The ones I do in between rounds out in the paddocks getting that cut down. 

I'm proud that I have done over half the yard in total. I know I will eventually get it all done. I'm just not going to push myself to the point of exhaustion again like I did for the first week. The paddock now is going from scrubby grass to reedy grass and cobbler's pegs (so many cobblers' pegs) have I mentioned that I absolutely loathe cobbler's pegs. They c stick to freaking everything and are so hard to pull out... well not hard... just time consuming.

My back is still sore, but I'm trying to push through the pain because I have so much shit that needs to get done, and it won't get done unless I do it.

until tomorrow, remember: Don't put off until tomorrow what you should be doing today... because let's face it; you won't want to do it then either.

Day 14: Getting Back To Normal

 Today, even though I'm still stiff and sore, I have to get back into cleaning mode because I have the maintenance guys coming tomorrow to check out the ceiling in Monsoon and Hurricane's room (water damaged from the rain).

I'm not sure I'll make it down to buy the groceries today. A) because I have a screw in my tyre and it needs to be changed out, and B) I don't want to have to take the 3 girls with me, that would be a mission all on its own, and I don't think I'm up to that. It's tough enough having to deal with them at home (I just keep telling myself, 13 days until school starts again).

The girls were so excited because yesterday and they got to show their grandad (dad's dad) before he left to go home... Don't know when he'll get back down for a visit. The girls will miss him like crazy.

Thank God the bins are emptied today so that I can start filling them up again. At least now they should begin to just be normal size bin days, because thanks to the girl's grandad who did a few dump-runs for us most of the trash is now gone. We still have to cull the kid's toys and clothes seeing as they have all had growth spurts. That is the last big job inside the house to do. though my daughter has to do with her clothes and stuff. Me, I'm always getting rid of my clothes (giving them to my sister) especially if I haven't worn them for a long time. If my sister doesn't get them, I donate them to the op-shop.

Until tomorrow, remember: One person's trash is another person's treasure.

Day 13: Still Out For The Count

 

My back is so sore today I can hardly walk... Though I have to get up because my daughter is the one who is sick today, she's in bed and I have to take care of everyone else. Life really sucks sometimes.

No yard work will be done again today. I really can do with the rest. hopefully tomorrow I'll be recovered enough to get something done even if it's only twenty minutes.

Today I'm working on updating all my charts. I only lost .4of a kg (104.5kg), but I lost cm all over, which I'm happy with. At least I'm still heading in the right direction.

Until tomorrow, remember: Life is like an ice cream cone, when you think you have it licked... it drips all over you.

Day 12: Not Feeling Well Today

 

I'm going to be spending the day in bed because I'm really not well. I have whatever virus is going around. Mum had it a couple of days before, I wonder who will get it next. I'm trying so hard not to vomit. Though mine is also because I've got a touch of the sun.

Today the three girls have decided it would be the best time for an all in war.  My head is pounding like it's ready to split open and my sciatica has moved up my leg and into my lower back... Yay, what fun.

Until tomorrow, remember: Puddles were made for jumping in... so, make sure you have your wellies handy.

Day 11: How Time Flies

 

I can't believe how fast the last 11 days have flown by. I hope it's not a sign of how the fast the whole year is going to go. Though, in saying that. If it does, then I'll reach my 2-year plan at exactly when I'm meant to, but it will seem faster.

I'm determined to enjoy this year and not let anything get under my skin. My year overview of my stars says that I will achieve my goals this year and I believe it. I'm just stubborn enough not to let anything defeat me. I'm hoping eventually my attitude will be contagious and my daughter will lift her game and start helping more around the house, but it probably won't happen until after she's had her surgery.

At least I'm still on track with all my current projects. If I keep going, I might even be able to get ahead on the paddock. I'll let you know what happens.

I'm also hoping that once the girls are back in school and the house is quiet for most of the week, that I will get into a better routine. I need to make sure I manage to fit everything into my day = getting my yard work and my household chores done. If I make a timed-out schedule that it will fit everything in, then I'll know what to do and when as I will have to fit the chores in and around the yard work (while the batteries are charging). I can do it. I know I can. I just have to wait 16 days to set it all in motion. right now, as soon as we clean up the three girls mess it up just as fast.

Until tomorrow, remember: It's okay to embrace the glorious mess that you are.

Day 10: Let's Chat A While

 

Before you ask... yes, I'm still out in the paddock, but it is getting easier, well, kind of. At least I'm sticking to it. To tell the truth it's starting to look really good. will be even better once it's mown. I'll start that once I reach the end of the big side paddock.

My next job to mark off the list is to build the 3 shelves I want to put in my plate pantry. I have all the material. I just have to do it and then decide if I want to swap the plate pantry with the food pantry. I'm trying to make things easier for myself.

We're supposed to be heading into a heatwave, and sadly I believe it. It has been muggy as hell. Either heatwave, or we are getting more freaking rain.

17 days until the girls are back at school. Not that I'm counting... who am I kidding, I am absolutely counting. They are freaking loud, all the damn time. I don't t think any of them know the meaning of inside voices... especially Monsoon and Hurricane, and they are all crying at the drop of a hat since they have had the chicken pox (though, mainly Graceful).

I'm proud of myself, I've still had no deep-fried food, and when the others had take-out, I didn't. I made my own food, so I knew exactly what I was eating and I'm sticking with the smaller meals. I'm not hungry in the slightest. I am drinking a shit-ton more. Though, I think that's more to do with all the freaking hard and hot as hell yard work I've been doing.

Until tomorrow, remember: The trick is not to let people know how weird you are, until it's too late for them to back out of the friendship.

Day 9: Happy Birthday, Daughter

 

I'd like to wish my daughter the happiest of birthdays. She may think I always forget her birthday... which is sometimes true. I should mention I forget mine as well. I'm figuring she must be turning 36 today. I usually cook her pancakes for breakfast. I guess I'll have to wait for her to wake up before I can find out if she wants them or not. This picture is not actually her cake, but I know she like Supernatural, so I thought it appropriate.

I'll be out working in the yard again today. I'll probably get a heap done before most everyone is even out of bed. I usually just wait until our noise restrictions say I can be loud, and then I head straight outside. I'm trying to play catch up from being sidetracked for two days and only getting half days in the yard.

My left knee is killing me. I'm not sure if it's because I'm overworking it or because of the rain, (have I already said that?) but at least I'm working through it and getting shit done.

I want to do a detox, (Not from drugs or alcohol), but just from the crappy way I've been eating. If anyone has any ideas, leave me a comment, because at the moment I'm just winging it. I've been sticking with my indoor walking. though it's painful to do the arm bits if I've done a lot of whipper snipping during the day.

Until tomorrow, remember: It's not about finding shelter from the storm, it's about learning to dance in the rain.

Day 8: Mr Bowie.

 Miss him every damn day.

Listen to him every damn day.

Just Awesome.

Until tomorrow, remember: Be happy... it drives people crazy.

Day 7: Crossing Off Another 2 Jobs

 

Today is the day my niece is coming over, and we are changing the wheels on the BBQ, and taking down the dog run in the back paddock. We'll also be having a BBQ, so I'll have to make garlic potatoes for my sister.

I'll get out early and do a stint in the back paddock. I'll also do more after everyone goes home, or if they annoy me while they are here at the house. I'll let my daughter entertain...LOL. Though while my niece is here, we'll make a plan to chainsaw up the one tree that is in my way of getting the bottom tier of the top drive completed.

Seven days into 2026, and I've already marked off a heap of stuff on my to do list. I just made up my mind this is the year I tell myself I can accomplish anything. I'm not taking no for an answer (not from myself I mean). Hopefully, the mindset and the momentum last throughout the whole year.

I'm giving myself little goals throughout the year... making it easier to achieve them. That's why I chose to do the hardest one first and I'm already almost halfway through it, by the end of this week, I'll be a little over halfway.  

Being the list lady that I am. I have made charts for everything just to keep myself on track. I have them for the following:

* Get shit done this week list

* Grocery List (because I want to see how much our spending changes)

* Food intake list (making sure I eat)

* Weight & Measurement Chart

* Yardwork Chart (keeping track of hours I'm working and what I'm doing)

* To buy List (household)

* To buy List (presents = Birthdays, Easter, Christmas)

* My chore chart

* Grandkids chore chart

* Budget

* Savings

* Debt pay down

I find I work better when I have a visual/physical thing in my hands that I can mark off and see that stuff is happening. This method might not work for everyone, but it works for me and that's all that matters.

Until tomorrow, remember: True friends are like diamonds, precious and rare. Fake friends are like autumn leaves and found everywhere.

Day 6: I'm Tired Today

Mental Health Check:

Today is the day my mum has to have hers done. It takes an hour; my daughter is taking her down because I'll be still working in the yard. it gives my daughter a break from the kids. and it also means I don't have to put a bra on to go downtown... which is the real reason that my daughter is taking her.

When she gets home, I'll be back out in the paddock and I'll start at the back fence line and work my way toward the dog run, to where I finished off yesterday. Hopefully it comes down easy.

As much work as I'm doing, you'd think I would be tired, but alas my insomnia is still ever present. So, I go to bed tired, and I wake up just as tired. It's a vicious never-ending cycle that I can't seem to break. It doesn't help that Monsoon has decided she needs to be bed buddies with me, because apparently, I let her watch the phone for longer. Though mind you, at the moment we are re watching Stranger Things.

 

Until tomorrow, remember: Dance to the music in your head like you think no one's watching.